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CAREERS FOR SINGLE MOTHERS Working Women
Getting Back on the Career Track
Book Description
Would you like
to return to the work world but are concerned about how to find an
opportunity that will allow you to fulfill
1.
Relaunch or Not: You Decide.
If financial reasons require you to return to work, go to step 2. If
not, determine whether you are ready to go back to paid work or
whether deepening your volunteer involvement or engaging in a
non-work passion might satisfy your restlessness. If you’re not sure
whether or not you want to return to paid work, visit
www.BackOnTheCareerTrack.com and take our Relaunch Readiness
Quiz.
2.
Learn Confidence. If a
lack of confidence is one of the obstacles holding you back, don’t
worry. You can regain it. Remember, whether you are a nurse, speech
therapist, computer programmer, scientific researcher, or
salesperson, your former colleagues’ and classmates’ image of you is
frozen in time. They think of you as a consummate professional, and
as you start to renew your professional persona and reconnect to the
professional world, your confidence will grow. Following Steps 3 and
4 will also help increase your confidence as you update your
professional knowledge and become more articulate in expressing what
you want to do and why.
3.
Assess Your Career Options.
Don’t think that returning to the conventional full time workforce
is the only way to resume your career. The moms we interviewed did
everything from starting a home based afterschool enrichment program
(former teacher) to running career services for a law school on a
flexible schedule (former public defender) to job sharing a hospice
administrator position (former social worker) to creating a
marketing campaign for a new mutual fund from home (former mid level
marketing executive). Break down your old job(s) or volunteer
experiences into their component parts and focus on what you did
best and what you liked best. Then try to think of new opportunities
that build on those skills and interests.
4.
Update your Professional and Job
Search Skills. A sure way to increase your confidence and
bolster your employability is to update yourself. Read relevant
journals, take continuing education classes and attend industry
events. In terms of job search skills, develop an elevator story (a
two minute talk answering the “what do you want to do” question)
that summarizes your expertise and the kind of opportunity you seek
in a few key sentences.
5.
Network and Market Yourself.
Order yourself a business card with your name and contact
information. That way you don’t have to scribble on a piece of scrap
paper if you meet someone who wants to keep in touch with you. Then,
start talking to people, beginning with those you know well. Branch
out to those to whom they refer you, and discuss your professional
interests and the kinds of opportunities you’d like to explore.
These informal conversations essentially function as interview
rehearsals, as you gradually hone your message. Prior to formal
interviews, make sure you prepare extensively by studying the
employer’s website and practicing answers to the most common
interview questions. When asked about your resume gap, answer
matter-of-factly that you took some time out to raise your
children/take care of an elderly parent, etc., but that you’re now
eager to get back to work.
6.
Channel Family Support.
Get your spouse, if you have one, on board with your plans as soon
as possible. If you encounter resistance, make it clear how
important this is to you and point out that with extra income you
might be able to outsource some of the tasks that neither of you
wants to perform, such as cleaning and shopping. The older your
children are, the sooner you should tell them as well. If you need
to change your childcare arrangements, try to implement the changes
before you start your new job, so you can work out any problems.
Streamline your household routines to maximize time to devote to
either work or family. Develop a support network of family and/or
neighbors to help you out in a jam.
7.
Handle the Job or Find Another One.
You found the right opportunity and you’ve relaunched. Initially,
keep your employer’s expectations low. Better to underpromise and
overdeliver, rather than the other way around. Ask for early and
frequent reviews -- ideally, every six months, because neither you
nor your employer will be able to predict the rate of your career
trajectory. Help your colleagues whenever possible, so they’ll
reciprocate when you need them. And, remember, this is just your
first foray back to the professional marketplace. If it doesn’t work
out, you can always make a change.
© 2007 Carol
Fishman Cohen and Vivian Steir Rabin
Carol Fishman Cohen,
is a frequent
speaker and consultant to employers, universities and individuals on the
topic of career
Vivian Steir Rabin,
has over 18 years
of diverse business experience, including leadership roles in finance and
human
They are the authors of
Back on the Career Track: A Guide for Stay at Home Moms Who Want to Return
to Work
(Warner Business Books; June 2007; $24.99US/$31.99CAN;
978-0446578202).
For more information,
please visit
www.BackOnTheCareerTrack.com.
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